Your talk on What Happy Couples Know Part 1 has changed my life for the good more than almost any sermon I have ever heard. I am applying it to my marriage relationship, my relationship with my grown children, my relationship with my other relatives, and, most importantly, to my relationship with God about my life. I didn’t realize how much I was carrying around the “you owe me” belief and how much I had handed my hopes/desires box to others (including God) as an expectation burden. I had burdened my wife and God with the responsibility for making me happy and was under-appreciating (lack of real gratefulness) for most of my blessings provided by them. I was appreciative on the surface and somewhat grateful — but I didn’t realize how much I was holding against them based on “you owe me” deep-seated subconscious thinking. Thank you for this message!!!